Just say no... Or maybe later :)

Bear with me: It is part of some mens experience to constantly be approached by women both sexually and mentally. Accepting and engaging in these gestures can be exciting and interesting- they’re certainly encouraged by society (the “hoe” stigma that women are assigned unjustly doesn’t apply to men), but I think it is important to love yourself and use discretion. Most self love talk is directed at women, but it is ESSENTIAL for the fellas as well. Don’t be the fly dude absorbing hella energetic coodies just to play the part.